Sunday, November 26, 2023

November 26 2023

 We have had a great week!! Really busy up front so slow end was good!  We taught seminary Monday,Tuesday and Wednesday. All three classes! We had what they call Thanksgiving blessing Monday and that was organizing , boxing and distributing thanksgiving dinners to those in need in Anchorage.  Pu classes helped make boxes and set up room and get ready for the 2:00pm when all could come and be helped getting the whole meal for their family! Gary was outside most of the time and it was 8 degrees but he was with the missionaries and I don’t think they got cold!  I helped people shop until 6. We were exhausted and went to a room where they fed the volunteers so we ate and visited and a moose was right outside the door.  A real Alaska experience!

Tuesday we taught the kids and did a family history lesson with find my friends and shared our family story. We asked them to bring a story of one of their ancestors that joined the church! So Wednesday the Ysa sister missionaries came and shared theirs and kids shared some. We felt good about it and we are starting to have relationships with the kids. We did enjoy it!  Sister young Beus and Malloy!

We were supposed to have a pie party Wednesday night but bishops wife was sick. We ended up having the missionaries for pie at our place instead.   Then I made rolls and pies for Thursday Thanksgiving dinner !  We went to Badgers for dinner and we went over early T noon so I could bake part of the rolls there and cook potatoes and make Gravy there.  It all worked and 16 of us were there. We really enjoyed the visit  and the good food!  We ended up staying until after 6 because part left early and we were comfortable there!!

With lots of early mornings we kind of crashed Fri!  We did go to the temple in the morning. We also went to a young married social at the Tichshla p ark ward to just answer questions and share our story with them !  They are great! We work with bishop afetea and his counselor with ysa group so we really like them. 

Saturday we walked at the mall and then took jam to Badgers and picked up the cooker. We decided to go together down to Kincaid park and find a trail!  It was slushy due to lots of rain but we enjoyed being out and visiting while we walked.   They are going home for Christmas so that’s a bummer 

We went to a Mexican restaurant. With our district last night!  We got to visit with new missionaries.  The sister APs were by me so glad to get to know them a bit!!  We enjoy all these young people!  They are pretty amazing!! Today after church we had the pie party! Had a pretty good crowd there!! Church was great too! A couple spoke that lost their son while he was on his mission!  It was very special . A sweet spirit was there!  I do appreciate a lot of the really great people here including the counselor in mission presidency who was mauled by a bear and should be dead but is totally okay! Can learn from all of them!!

Tuesday, November 21, 2023

Big Bears

 What you are going to read below is about 900 words.  It adds a little detail to what Mom/Grandma told in 80 words. In my next lengthy, verbose, back-story telling post, I will add more detail about our small miracles we've been having that she mentions.  If you are good with the Clif notes, you don't need to read my posts.  

But before the post, Last week we were talking about a difference in us that is being exposed and highlighted as we serve here.  There is nothing wrong with either of us, but we are now operating at a very significant different pace.  Mom is extremely efficient and she does everything fast. She walks fast, sews fast, cooks fast, cleans up fast, reads fast, cleans house fast, writes fast all without losing even an ounce or tinge of quality.  I can keep up in short bursts, but i'm soon left behind.  I just drive fast and want more dessert on my plate fast.  So, she's the hare, I'm the tortoise, but she always wins the race because of her efficiency and endurance.  I'm mostly endurance and when i burst fast, i slow down even more. It was much easier at home when we each could maintain our own pace and schedule, but here where we are really operating everything the same, we are having to figure out how to manage.  And we are.  Once we recognized what was happening, then we could address it and make necessary adjustments.  One example is that now when we are out in the neighborhoods, I navigate, she drives.  It's amazing how well that has worked.  anyway, if you're still with me, here's some detail that i enjoy writing. 





We look forward to each day with what it will bring.  Friday night we are going to a ward Wild Game night where they will serve bear stew, goat chunks, mountain sheep, rock fish, and other stuff.  we want to try it all, so we will report back.   

 

November 19, 2023

On the 10th we did go to the wild game night and we ate all that was there to try, we think.  I don’t think there were goat chunks, but we could buy them at Costco. ☹ 


But we did eat Black Bear Stew, Moose Meat loaf with moose toe jam sauce, Salmon prepared in several ways, Caribou fajitas, rock fish, halibut, wild turkey, elk & moose sausage, and some things I’m not sure what they were.  They had labels for each one so we knew what was going into our mouths. All of it was made by members.  It was rather interesting cuisine. Nothing that turned my stomach, but nothing that talked to me like I couldn’t wait to go back for more or anxious to find a hunter to get more for me.  But, when in Alaska, do as the Alaskans do…mostly.  They didn’t have whale blubber or seal meat…that is left for the Native Alaskans I think. 

Towards the end of dinner, it was an open mike for anyone who wanted to share a fishing or hunting story from Alaska.  The last one was President Brian Smith, who is the 1st Counselor in the mission presidency.  He came on a mission here 45 years ago and went home to Utah and found a wife who said she’d live with him in Alaska. Found one and moved back up here and raised a family of 8 children.  He has been hunting and fishing all over the state, even a guide sometimes.  So, he trains all of the new missionaries to Alaska how to be safe in the outdoors.  There are urban moose all over, bears in the many parks and preserves around.  Everyone is urged strongly to have bear spray and mosquito repellant with them when they are in areas on the outskirts of town or working on the benches.  He taught us that when dealing with bears the saying “if you see black, fight back; If you see brown, fall down, play dead; If you see white, kiss it goodnight”.  Polar bears never let their prey get away.  Brown bears here are grizzly bears.  He told a story of a friend who had a huge brown bear attack him.  They are very fast creatures and move very quickly, deceptively quick.  By the time this guy could pull his 9mm all he could see of the bear was his open mouth as he squeezed the trigger.  When he came to his senses, the bear was dead on top of him.  It was the best story of the night.

 Something very ironic happened this week involving President Smith.  He went fishing with a friend down to Kenai last week. We are not aware of all the details, but this is what we’ve been told.  As they were making their way down to the river, they saw a brown bear a way off eating berries and foraging.  They kept their eye on it as best they could. But before they got down to the river the bear had made its way to the bottom of the trail and was moving up it.  They started moving away from the bear as quickly as they dared without spooking it.  Suddenly it charged him and was on him before he could draw his gun.  He lifted his arm to protect his face from the wide-open mouth about to consume him. The bear clomped down on his forearm, breaking it in two places.  He fell to the ground face first, but was unable to move his arms to protect his head.  The bear then bit him on both sides of his head and face, then bit him on the side next to the stomach and finished the attack with a brutal bite to the buttocks.   His friend was screaming and hollering and throwing things to try to scare it away, but unbeknownst to him the bear’s yearling was coming down the trail.  Which, undoubtedly & unavoidably, was why the bear charged.  The rule is to never get between a sow and her cub.  They ran off into the woods after the attack.  Pres. Smith’s friend helped him to the bottom of the trail to the river bank and miraculously had one bar of service so he could call 911 and get help.  They got him to a hospital and stitched him up—a lot of stitches.  The injuries were all non-life threatening.  It’s a miracle that he is alive.  We are hoping to get more details, but one of the challenges he is understandably having is not being able to sleep at night, not from the pain from the wounds, but from the nightmares…PTSD.  We are praying for him and hope he recovers.  We’ve had a lot of great conversations with him over the few months we’ve been here and he is really a great guy.  I was hoping he would take me fishing in the spring.  I really hope he can recover emotionally from the attack and not move away. 



Sunday, November 19, 2023

November 19 2023

 Kind of hard to believe we are really to Thanksgiving week!  I’ve never been totally away for this holiday so won’t think on it too much!!  As always we have kept busy this week!  District meeting on Monday so made treats and lined up some sewing for some of our elders! They ended up bringing me 6 pair of slacks to fix!  Glad to do it!  In fact I told Gary it felt good to sew!!

We had great institutes this week with mint brownies for treat!  We are really enjoying the learning with the kids!  We have been out tracking YSA’s a few times one today after church we did a blitz.  Tracked a whole bunch from our maplewood group!!  I think it was good and had a potluck dinner after!!  We are understanding the culture more all the time!

We ran into a inactive member in Arby’s when we were out tracking and made a pit stop!  She worked there and followed us to our table and recognized missionaries!! We got interrupted by a problem in the store but I think we will go back soon to visit again!

We served with young missionaries at Hope house the women’s shelter ! That is a good experience! That was our Friday night date!  We went to the temple wed morning and stopped at the distribution center after and met a women that went to school with Joshua!  From summerset!

We found a young man. ( or his room mate) so know where he is now that was one or Jordan Hirschis young men!  We will follow up soon there.

We went to the craft fair down town yesterday afternoon with Kuerths and enjoy being with them always! We went with sister missionaries Secrist and I can’t remember but Eagle River sisters to dinner at Kuerths after and that was really fun!! One sisters two weeks here! Fun to talk to!!

We just found out our brother smith who cooked our wild beasts  dinner last week, was mulled by a bear!  He was out fishing in Kenai . He knows all the rules etc. but got in a bad spot! Broke his arm in two places and clamped on his face his stomach and his bottom!!  He will be okay but is really misserable!! Lots of stitches!! He is counselor in mission presidency.  His wife newly working in mission office!

Have a big week coming teaching seminary and Thanksgiving!! Best when we are busy!!!


Monday, November 13, 2023

November 13 2023

 Another snow day so FHE got cancelled tonight so we are home with an open evening!  We did have district counsel today and I took pumpkin brownies!  We went early and a good thing because there was an accident on the frontage road so we had to wind far and wide to get around it.  Strange thing here is roads really are not plowed!  Ever some of them!

We did have a great meeting! I’m really impressed with these young people they share and really do amazing things! I like that it changes each transfer because we get to know more missionaries.   I’d like to take some home for my grandkids!

I started the day today at 7 with a zoom call with Jeri Teri Kae and Kathy it was really nice to talk with them!!

 Started yesterday with a 7am zoom of Stokers primary program. Loved seeing the little ones. Jarilyn played for it too!!  Her last officially there due to a call change for her!! I have many times here wished for my girls talents on the piano. I practice a bit on a keyboard I inherited!

We do YSA ward this week. A unique thing here in Sunday there were like 10 girls and 30 men!!  I guess more guys want to live here. Some sharp ones too! We do a munch and mingle 2nd and 4th sundays so I will cook for those! When we were out contacting  we had our first encounter with a moose!! Then we drove down the road and saw 3 more!

Saturday night about 10:30 Gary got a notice for northern lights so we took off up the mountain to a previous spot we’d found. We could see like a green rainbow and then Gary went to take a picture and it really showed up! We watched for about 30 minutes and the lights got brighter and brighter and then they start to dance. Had pink on the bottom. Then they just started to fade and we’re gone in a few minutes!  It was pretty spectacular!  That with over 3 feet of snow we’ve gotten I had to put up our Christmas tree!  We were invited to wild beast dinner at Brayton church!! We ate moose, bear,caribou,salmon,halibut, sheep, wild turkey!  It was all pretty good!

I did teach seminary on Wednesday and Gary’s Thursday classes got snowed out.(snow day). My classes went pretty good! We just did chips and queso for institute on tues and Thursday was cancelled!

We went with Kuerths on sat for. Veterans Day lunch and a walk in the snow and earth quake park!  It was really nice to be with them!!

We walk at the mall some mornings like today and other days I do thy eliptical!  Somehow we are always busy!! It is so beautiful right now how could we not love this. I guess this is breaking records for November snow!!! 













Friday, November 10, 2023

November 9, 2023

 From Gary's POV.  probable a little repeat stuff here.  😏

We have a pretty variable schedule, with each day being a new adventure.  Each day moves so fast, as do the weeks.  They are typically very  full, very fast moving and very fulfilling.  We had dinner with the mission President and his wife at their home on Monday with the other newer senior missionaries. We did that instead of the YSA FHE.  Then Tuesday morning at 6:30 am, Justin Reeder, our Institute Director called us to ask us to teach his 3 periods of seminary that day because he was sick.  We had about 45 minutes to get ready, prepare and drive to the seminary to teach the first class.  A little tight timing, but if we aren’t prepared to step in now, when will we ever be.  It was a good day with those kids.  Justin was well enough by that night to teach Insatiate class, so that was better for us. 

We also get to meet with the young missionaries in their district and zone meetings.  They call them councils and last for 1 ½ hours, with training, role plays and testimonies.  We are amazed that the ones doing these meetings are the same ones who have grown up, matured and strengthened themselves from how they were in the MTC. 

Our evenings are busy and occupied almost every night.  As we try to contact the Young adults here, we are meeting more and more people who are really wonderful people.  During the day we do a lot of prep time on lessons and activities related to finding the YSAs here.  Although we as missionaries’ cross lines of organizations, we are finding that there are a lot of fingers in the pot.  So, as we try to be efficient and not reinvent the wheel or re-do what has just been done, we find we need to interact with a lot of people.  Sometimes I feel that we just keep getting ready to get ready.  We have to keep adjusting our approach as we get more information.  That constant change or adjustment in game plan is difficult for me.  When it comes to trying to move a big movement along, I’m usually a ready, fire aim guy.  So basically that is what we are doing, Just getting out and doing things so we can adjust the aim as needed. 

Perfectionism also gets in my way, so I guess I’m just a mess and realizing why I am experiencing a little PTSD from 50 years ago in South America.  But, most of the stress I went through then was with changing areas and changing companions.  Can I just tell you how awesome Carolee is as a companion! With me working at home so much, we’ve been used to being with each other for many years.  As a result, neither of us is screaming for some alone time, although we do take it now and again when we run to the store or go for a walk separately.  But we’re in the same place for a year and she is an amazing missionary comp.  She is doing things I never thought I’d see her do.  We are tracting in the dark, she is driving in the snow and then going to the doors with confidence and it is pretty cool to be a part of.  She keeps me in line and keeps me as even keel as she can.  Our year and a half as EQ President and her being my visiting partner really helped prepare both of us for this experience.  She is amazing!

We’ve got a snow day here in Alaska. The schools are all closed, the city is practically shut down. We got 18-20 inches overnight and it’s still snowing hard with another 4 to 6 coming today. The next 10 day forecast is for another 2 feet of snow!  I mean how can it get better? It can and will.  

The attitude for plowing roads around here is pretty laid-back. The storm is on top of 7 inches. We got last week. Two days ago the plow came in front of our house for that storm. Don’t think it’ll make it around for this storm for a while, so we’re just packing it down and driving on it.

🥶It is so awesome. I am loving it!❄️❄️❄️☃️

Here’s one of the Urban wildlife friends we met the other night. We were in the car and 15 feet away.  He is HUGE.  He’s probably about 7 feet tall.  They are big animals. 






It was about a mile or so from our house in a subdivision

We were supposed to teach seminary for 3 periods today, bus school was cancelled, so that meant seminary was too.  Then Institute was cancelled as well.  So after a meeting with the YSA elders and sisters, we came home and went for a walk in the snow.  The street lights and reflection off the snow,



make it like daylight out there.,  

We are experiencing small miracles seems like every day...
We look forward to each day with what it will bring.  Friday night we are going to a ward Wild Game night where they will serve bear stew, goat chunks, mountain sheep, rock fish, and other stuff.  we want to try it all, so we will report back.   

 

Monday, November 6, 2023

November 6 2023

 The fact that today is chalaes birthday 47. Cannot go unnoticed!!  What an adventure that started!! The beginnings of our family and the beginnings of most of you!!  Wow it has been a wonderful growing experience!!

As has this last week!  We started visiting our missing young adults with varied success!  We have met one and most others are not where records show they are so we meet others or not!  We are glad we started last week before it got dark so early and before the snow came!  We now have a very beautiful world with about 7 inches of snow!! Everything is covered!  It stays I think because the wind does not blow here!  Or not so far!

A highlight of the week was hosting a Halloween pot luck at the institute for the Senior couples!! It was really good food and  a really fun visit!  Really great people!  Institute was cancelled so we did this instead!!  We also had a great final district meeting before transfers. A fun game night with Maplewood group, hosted by Rachel Morgan who does it all!!  We went to the temple wed night and ended up on session with the missionaries going home.  It was great! Got to tell Elder smith goodbye again!!

Did no bake cookies for institute thursday night but only had missionaries there!  Like 2 others! We have got to get something going there!  We had done lazagna soup and corn bread for pot luck and they asked us to bring to orientation Friday.  So busy morning to get that there before lunch!  We stayed and cleaned up and met with YSAmissionaries to plan.  It was a full week!  We watched a movie and took the night off Friday!

Another highlight was bro. Kinkaid got us tickets for the Alaska symphony Saturday night!  It was really wonderful!  He plays the French horn and it was really good!!  Yesterday we went to both sacrament meetings trying to welcome new military members and then went to dinner at Kuerths.  They are the best!! Really enjoy being with them! Really enjoying our time here!

Home from Alaska-

  So this will be our final entry of our mission to the Anchorage Alaska Mission, assigned as CES missionaries. As I'm writing this, we ...